lesson learnt today:
to know if the guy is a keeper/loser, tell him that you love him early in the relationship.
if he freaks out, tell him that it;s justin's fault.
if he freaks out and run, he's just not worth your time.
if he says that he loves you back, it's prollie time for you to freak out.
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a few years ago, I told Justin about this new relationship I had with X.
do you love him? he asked
being a naive little woman, i told him to define love.
if you think of him all the time and you miss him and you care about him, etc then you love him he said. what crap advice.
unfortunately, i took his advice and told X that i loved him. He totally freaked out. Thank God he was quite sensible and asked me what i thought love was, and i guess by that time we both realized that that wasn't exactly love.
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anyway i don't know what my point is but next time i date someone, i'll tell him that I love him early in the relationship and see his reaction to know what kinda person he is! then again, it might not be a very wise move.
this is a silly post.
hAHA